Thank you both Imageer and moof2girls for your advice and suggestions. You guys are awesome and give me the strength to put my foot down on this matter.
Talk about my W abducted by alien - I would have never thought my W to be doing this teenage like activities. She is a social worker, a girls scout leader and I have always admired her for setting good examples for kids.
My kids remain the number one priority and I am trying to be the rock for them thru all this. I am concerned about their emotional side, but Imageer's cautionary note on their physical secutrity hit me like a freight train. My W has left my little one in charge of one her OMs to baby sit at at times. She has had so many of them over the last few weeks, its hard to keep track. I am not, I have decided to detach but I want to make sure I address my kids' security right away.
Me 41, ring on W 36, ring off married 13 yrs Separated D9, D5 bomb May, 07 My sitch