I know it's out of desperation, but does he not learn a single thing from all the advice the rest of you give him????? I really do try to be sympathetic to what he is going through. I am bending over so far to accomodate him that I could practically be a doormat. (This of course has been one of the problems all along with me letting him control me.)He does good for a while, but then gets the attitude oh well things haven't gotten back to normal and I'm not getting "any" so I might as well be an ass again since nothing I'm doing is working......