I haven't really decided if I am standing up for myself, or just trying to get revenge (although revenge would mean trying to get more than my fair share, wouldn't it????)
I think that is standing up for yourself. I walked away with a lot more than my fair share. At first I felt guilty, but then I decided that if XH was that concerned about his fair share, he sure would have taken my feelings and concerns into account when he was carrying on with OW all those months. Now, that OW is pregnant and he is planning his life with her...I'm glad that I am sitting here in my house...more financially sound than when I was with him. He wanted this life...I didn't. It's only fair that I didn't get financially cheated since I was so emotionally cheated. If I wanted revenge, I would have done something a lot worse. I didn't want revenge...I wanted a good life.
M:28, D finalized: 8/28/07 Current Thread
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