Wow- it's been CRAZY!
Work has had me slammed (Thank GOD!).
The concert was great.

I broke down and called him to see when he would be at my house and he was stuck in traffic.

We took his convertible; weather was fantastic; I looked cute- had my nails all done, toe ring on and my 3 inch heels. ;\)
Initially, he seemed a little distant. Wasn't reaching for my hand. I just kept being happy and upbeat.

Then, while we were waiting for the concert to start he reached for my hand. And then during the concert during every, single song, he had has arm around me. He would take it off to clap, but then put it right back. \:\) I noticed that no other guy did that non-stop for his girl. One couple in front of us the guy would sometimes put his arm around her, but not always.

Afterwards, on the way to the car, he asked about spending the night. I said sure. Then I asked if he had a change of clothes and he said no, he'd just go home. So, then I said "Well, then I don't know if this is going to work out tonight." "I am not accustomed to someone having sex with me and then leaving....nope...that's not how I roll."
He was like "oh yeah? But it's a school night." And I said "Uh-yeah. Newsflash-you lived in that house and worked in the same location; so 'whatever'."
Long story short, we had a great post concert time (ahem) and he left this morning at 8:30.

I asked after my motocycle gear and he seems to think it's here. (I don't know.) While walking to the concert I said "So, ya gonna rent a bike for us to go out on this weekend? haha" and he was like "Sheesh. Demanding!haha" and I said "naw-I'm just making a pointed suggestion." big smile.

Then on the way home, I said "Are you desiring any of my time this weekend because I need to schedule things."
H "Well, I thought I would come work on the car on Saturday. Are you desiring any of MY time this weekend?"
Me "Sure. But we need to do something unusual."
H "Well, maybe I can look into getting a bike and we can go somewhere."

This morning he left and said he'd look into renting a bike. He called in the afternoon to update me; we are still torn because the weather might be bad.

THEN he says "Oh. I might have tickets for Stevie Wonder tomorrow night."
Me" THE Stevie Wonder? Why only "might have tickets"?"
H laughs "Yeah, THE SW. I bid on the tickets and I don;'t know if I won them yet. I should know in a couple hours."

THEN he went on to say that we could go to one of the islands on the bike for a long day trip and talked about which towns he was thinking about.

But if we don't actually end up going this weekend, we'll try to go some other weekend.

So, all in all- very good. I am quite pleased with how he is researching things, etc.

Probably the most disturbing thing to me is how hard it is for him to fall asleep (and me too, for that matter.) I *know* why I can't fall asleep, but I think his restlessness is different.


Me-43
H-46
M 12 yrs 7/09
T 15
2 grown kids
bomb 7/05/07
H moved out 8/04/07
11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling
Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D
End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing