I am stronger for sure, but also madder than I was a few months ago. I moved from being sad and scared to MAD! When this first started I really didn't know there was an ow in the picture, although I suspected it. The fact that he has moved so quickly makes me want to fight for my share! I haven't really decided if I am standing up for myself, or just trying to get revenge (although revenge would mean trying to get more than my fair share, wouldn't it????)