Prodigal,

I guess I can't see an affair like a normal relationship? Maybe there are aspects of it that are so underground that it has to move quickly and intensely because there is so much at stake. I truly think my H now knows he has sacrificed everything to be with the OW so he really wants it to be real and passionate.

They were not friends. She does not know any of his friends as she is new to town and he keeps her hidden from exposure. How long will the underground behavior continue before people can't take it any more? I dread seeing them. Did you H ever see you with OM?


Me:38 H:39 MLC
M:10 R:23 years
D6 S3
Bomb: Easter, 2007
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