I found your thread and read through a lot of it. I tried to post there, but it must be locked. You and your H sound like a very interesting, high-powered couple. It's good that you are back together. I hope that Alaska works out better for you this time. My own sitch is that my H and I are back together and happy together after Retrouvaille. It was what we needed to learn how to live life as a family, not married singles. That said, I really should go spend some time with him, as I am on these boards too much lately.