Monogomous Nympho Frustrated by Sexy LD Hubby

[MJontheMend]

There is no such thing as a man who is all "wolf"
Did someone say there was? I believe your initial model consisted of a square made up of 4 squares. Therefore integration would be maintaining love and desire 4 OP, across all 4 areas. Seeing their faults and loving them still. Women who are dealing with M/W have husbands who have not integrated desire. It is a nueral connection issue. It can be overcome, the guy just has to want to. and then stroke that nueral pathway.

I agree with you.

I have found a way to end a sexual R with a woman and have her continue to think of me as a good friend. So far it has worked everytime. I dont even have to give an explanation, they just cant/dont want to continue it. Thanks to you :-P I had to stop using the 'do nothing' tactic. and that is a sincere thanks. This one is much better for everyone. I dont lose respect and they dont act self destructive. If I find one it doesnt work on, it may actually increase my respect. win/win.
I use the lack of integration to DoNoHarm.

I must say I am intrigued. Does it involve wearing bright white shoes that are a size too big?

Of course if LQ went out into the world looking for a "wolf" she could find one in most men she encountered because she would be sending out the appropriate signal.

I disagree. She would definitely find one but not 'in most men', because very few are willing to live without emotion. Nobody 'wants' to only be wanted for sex. If it were most men you wouldnt be asking me where to find one.

I meant that most or all men have some wolf in them, not that most men are mostly wolf. I don't believe that at all. If LQ went out looking for a wolf, she would find the wolf part of some man.

BTW, I still think you found what you need right now. When you feel nihilistic, your not listening to your self. Of course NG is ML to you. I wonder if he can 'hear' that you arent ML to him, but Im not really concerned. I want to say I dont care if he can, but it comes across wrong.

and I worry about that. alot. \:\)

I really wish you weren't so cryptic. Maybe you're half right or maybe you're all right but just looking at it from the opposite perspective. Anyway, my bunny is all bundled up safe in a chicken suit covered up with a monkey suit (No this isn't entirely true because I'm sometimes bold if not brave). So NG gets two monkeys for the price of one! If I was him I'd be kind of sick of it. Anyway, I appreciate what I think you mean when you say you "don't care if he can."