Get me on a smoother ride........Need Advice

[NoDirection]

I can totally relate to your situations. W is invovled with her father's "best friend". I ahve some really great itmes with my wife and I ultimately think that she believes her life could be so much greater with the OM because he makes more money than me.

It is funny because as soon as something positive happens, she shuts down or leaves the room to not let it continue. Only two fo my friends know what really is goin on and they are surprised I am putting myself throug this. One is single and no where near marriage and the other just celebrated their 1-year anniversary, still on his honeymoon.

Everyone I talk to though who has gone through their parents divorcing tells me it is the worst thing in teh world for them and I can not do that to my son. I still have feelings for my wife but I know the OM is who she wants right now...