While I appreciate all of you who defend me to SOP, I wouldn't bother, really. It feels good to know that you can stand by someone who has cheated...remember this if/when your WAS returns, ok? It's easy to forgive me; I'm a nameless faceless stranger. It will be harder when your spouse tells you they want to talk to their OP. Remember then how you feel about my situation now.

SOP, I won't order, or even ask you to leave this thread again. Obviously you gain SOMETHING from your presence here, or you would've already left. But I find little for us to discuss - we simply disagree.

The grass may be greener, but then again, it may also be astroturf.
~Amy C Brown