is 1978 the yr you were born, just wondering its my birth year also.
anyways I started posting here as you recommended the people are much more supportive on this board here is my link
I had a few questions for you, hypothetically speaking, if you had an OM in the picture how would that affect your desire to work things out with your H.
also at times I really feel like I am making progress with my wife, she has even told me so, for example my last backslide, she got very irate and said "you have no idea how close you were, every time I think Im going to give you another chance you go and do something like this"
after every backslide I get back on track and then it seems all is well. I don't back slide that often though.
my second question is this assuming my wife is still contacting the OM, how real is my progress, is it really possible that Im making this progress if she is still having an affair. Or is she just keeping me happy so I won't snoop and bother her.
some times I feel like I am being played for a fool, How can she sincerely be considering us if she is still wrapped up with OM
