What drives me absolutely nuts, is for me to tell my H my intentions (ie I'm not completely done, I need space, here are my plans towards figuring out what I want to do), and then he grills me over and over and over about what my plans are!!!
He is doing it out of desperation. He is afraid that if he gives you space, you are going to leave him. He is afraid you will decide that you do not want to be with him anymore. He is shocked at the thought that you are not sure if you want to continue being M to him and he will do anything that he thinks will keep that from happening. So, he is trying to smother you to try to convince you that the M is worth working on.
“Do you want to be RIGHT or want to be LOVED” “You have to have a life to share a life with someone” “When you stop resisting, you start learning”
