CY is in a difficult spot. I am theorizing, and shouldn't speak for him, but this is how I see his situation. His Catholic belief system will not allow him to solve his problem by getting a divorce. He is chained to his W for life unless he either rejects his Catholic beliefs or she divorces him against his will. The third choice, which is what he is trying to accomplish, is for him to get her to work with him to make the marriage bearable. He has found the Retrouvaille program, which has the power to help him, so he deserves credit for making a good effort. And he deserves credit for living with a situation that most people would just walk away from. I would rather you did not criticize him on my thread.
