To Jeff...my friend....let me make one thing clear:

-we all make mistakes, me included..horrible at times. We would be human if we didn't
-history Jeff...we learn from history. Even you told me that we are NOT the same people we were when we married our W's
-you didn't 'f' up Jeff, you...I...we DID lose track...we lost our focus.....we misplaced some manstuff

I admire you Jeff. You've been strong. You've been there for me. You STILL are there for me. It was not easy FOR ME..as your friend..to read thru frank_d's...but...I must read...I MUST LEARN...I must learn thru OTHERS. Even on my own thread, I read everything 'my girls write'..Lissie and BBA. Yeah...they swing a mean bat, but, I would still cut BBA's lawn and white wash her fence ANYDAY.

4kids..on my thread..wrote about guilt and resentment...how that has NO place in a real man's life. I agree. Choose to learn...as history....same for me. I know where I screwed up. I also know where I didn't.

Strength and honor to my Alabama Maximus.

FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;