I don't think of myself as controlling at all (enabling? oh yes. paternal? oh yes. controlling of my spouse? I don't think so), bit it seems to me that that kind of behavior would likely be driven by insecurity. Does that sound right/make sense?
M 39 W 39 M'd 10 yrs; T 14 yrs S7 D4 Bomb 5-8-05 W not working on M 1-22-07; EA 2-22 DB 4-10 S 6-11 No more C Link