Yes, it would definitely seem self-defeating but at the same time, just going along with Plan A (which is, of course, what I would prefer) might send out the wrong signals too. After all, **I** have allowed him to cross that line way too many times so is this any different in his mind. will he just think "oh, she is coming around again and if I just lay low for a while, things will be back to where they were"

Is that just a fear in my own head?

Heywyre

M - 57
H - 65
1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02
2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06
together 21 years
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Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)