My H has his bachelors but has not interest in getting his masters. He also has tried to alienate me from family & friends. Succeeded in many cases too. I think this sort of thing is borderline abuse if not outright abuse.
Me: 30 EX-H: 37 DD: 5 Separated 6/07. MC for months, EX-H quit MC. Divorce Final 8/14/08. Trying to move on with new life.