No, I was not a WAS if that is what you were asking. I certainly know people who have left their Ms though.
I wasn't speaking with certainty about any particular case. I was careful to make sure I didn't talk about all cases. I'm speaking in generalities. Why do I think those generalities are true? Some things just become pretty clear over time.
i knew you werent a WAS.
i think in some cases what you say is true, but i would venture a guess that not in most is that the case.
i agree w/breton that marital status is a basic part of a person's identity and that not making a decision is a mark of indecision and immaturity, but i dont think we should get hung on it either, as you said
bfm
There is only one person who could ever make you happy, and that person is you. David Burns, Intimate Connections
