I found this quote which I thought really applied to our sitches: “God created the law of free will, and God created the law of cause and effect. And he himself will not violate the law. We need to be thinking less in terms of what God did and more in terms of whether or not we are following those laws.” - Marianne Williamson
I was also thinking about this DB'ing theory, and how we humans always want what we think we can't have (I posted something about this on someone else's thread). So, we should be the greener grass in order to have a chance of attracting our spouses back. Keep in mind the cause and effect of our choices and actions. I am certainly going to ponder this with my sitch, and see what cause I can effect, which will give me the best outcome.
Labour Day weekend is coming, and the kids go back to school next week (in our region, anyway), so lots of things to do, organize, etc. Busy time, indeed, and it will help keep my mind off negative stuff. Although, I have been pretty positive about life lately. I am sending my sitch into the cosmos, and allowing the Creator to deal with it as it pleases Him. I am letting go of the little control I have over my life, and seeing where it will take me. (As I said previously ... just floating along the river of life.)
Phoenix:
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim