Why don't WAS's finish what they started?

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"This does not make WASs in denial, lost in a fog, ready to run home, immature, or directionless"

I disagree. You stated it somewhat differently as "not a priority"--but fair or not, marital status is a very basic part of a person's identity in this culture.

If you are lingering in the limboland, you are not acknowledging or accepting a fact of life. Actually, that would be multiple facts of life, as things like death and taxes do hinge on marital status.

Young rebels might fight the idea of getting married. Older rebels might choose to get divorced or to not get married again.

But staying in limbo is an undecision. It is mark of immaturity and lack of direction.

"I don't like being married but I'm not going to DO anything about it."