WAW1978,

Oh my gosh!!!! Are you sure we are not married to the same guy!!!!!!! My H had tons of friends and did lots before we got married, afterwards he cut off all contact with everyone and basically expected me to do the same. He tried to completely alienate me from everyone including my family. It's as if he thinks that he should be absolutely all I need to exist, and that before I met him I was absolutely nothing.

You talked about getting your masters degree. Does your H have a degree? Seems like mine is jealous or intimidated b/c I have one and he doesn't. I'm not any smarter than him, I just stuck it out and he didn't.