Look over my sitch and MissMyFriend's, we are both going through the same thing and we might be similar to you.

The "Enabler" is not that uncommon. It's most likely a miserable, hateful person trying to drag down other people with them. Misery loves company.

M35 W37
S9 D6
M12 yrs Know 15 yrs
Bomb 1/28/07
My Sitch
Failure is the opportunity to start again more intelligently - Henry Ford