Madonna/Whore Part 8 (aka Attachment Therory)

[Heywyre]

I have told him that but IF I am willing to reconcile based on him making some definite changes in his life, how does that get acknowledged if I continue to shun him trying to connect with me physically/emotionally again?

Most of the affection he shows me is no more than I would give to a friend (of which he is) so do I withdraw that too?

I clearly am afraid of being burned again but at the same time I don't want to close the door if he truly knows this is the end of the line and is making a genuine effort to repair the damage