Aha! I tend not to hold back! If I am not happy, I usually say it or avoid the boards. All the rest are just natural reactions to the situations we are in, arent they? Just trying to figure out what to do to make life different / better than it was.
I just thought about this, our strategies are efforts to impvove things and we cant help if they are perceived the wrong way because they are what we should have been doing before. We just have to keep on doing them till the perception changes from manipulation to this is how life will be from here on out.
and...we are all trying to get something from someone else "the takers in us" and anything we do along those lines is a manipulation of some sort. It is the intent and manner in which we do those things that count.
Yes or am I manipulating my own thoughts? That is sort of like looking in a mirrow with a mirror behind the mirror, or what is the size of the universe, or what is that person thinking...
Me: 46 Wife: 39 D: 13 S: 11, 9, 7 Bomb 3.2.07, Sep Same Day, D papers 11.1.07 Current Status - Wants to take me through Discovery, I will go to prison first.