You know, like when I come on hear and say I'm going to try to stop initiating contact, but when I do see W I will be happy, upbeat and positive (even if I am really pissed). Or, when I come on here and ask if I should try to meet W's LL with coffee or little gifts. How about when I ask all my friends if I should take care of things around the house or just let W do it. Those "strategies" probably look pretty manipulative and suspicious to a WAS.
M 39 W 39 M'd 10 yrs; T 14 yrs S7 D4 Bomb 5-8-05 W not working on M 1-22-07; EA 2-22 DB 4-10 S 6-11 No more C Link