I think flip is talking about plans that the LBS is having reviewed her first. Just my guess as I might be trying to apply this to me. HI HONEY! LOVE YA!
Flipside,
It's a god send you have found this site, and you can post up without giving away your sitch. You have already given a lot of people her today a good insight into the feelings you as a WAW (I assume since you said your sitch relates to WAW's so much) have. You could give a lot of help and support here, and I know a lot of us guys could use a good talking to. If you get a moment after checking up on Nomo I would love a little 2x4'ing over at my thread.
WAW,
The controlling thing sucks, and it is a two way street. If you take down the road block he will drive all over the road like a madman. Learn to set those boundaries without being aggressive, my C had me look at that from the other side and it really clicked a lot, but putting into practice is hard.