Two mistakes I made so far. One is I said I would try at the beginning of the year. W said we won't try we will do. Then it turned it to W. will try. Then she said it wasn't getting any better. Then she wanted a D. then she wanted to try again, then she did not want to talk about it anymore.
My point is this to quote the great jedi master Yoda "do or don't do. There is no try!" A great many believe when disaster strikes we can cruise along until it gets better. This is IMO is very wrong, until both are completed commited to repair failure is almost always assured. Having said don't talk about trying, let him and you do. You can do it, I believe there is very little that totally destroys except for lack of forgiveness and prolonged selfishness. Just as positive behavior can have positive effects on the other, the same can be said for negative.
Do not despair this is not meant to be a your doomed statement more over it is a show him your dedicated and see what he does, not says does.
Married:10 years D final 8/28/08 10 minutes is all it took Life goes on and DB was no small part in growing from the Divorce!
