I'll echo CVA (and my earlier comments), don't get back on her (not so) merry-go-round. You are doing wonderfully well.
However, I think Retrouvaille would be OK to suggest if she seems open when she talks to you. If she would go, how could it hurt? I can't see a downside.
BD
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Me: 36 W: 35 2 D: 9 and 5 T: 16 years M: 12 10/4/06: Bomb 10/5/06: Ended A 4/22/07: ILYBNILWY