Isn't it hard when we want it fixed so badly, but have no control?? However, some days I feel much better when I say to myself "I can't control this, its not up to me" (meaning up to a higher power). Its like its out of my hands so I can focus on taking care of myself and the kiddos.
Its great she is saying those things about wanting to stay together and that she loves you. Maybe like my H, she is afraid that things will be better for a year or two, then revert back. I can't do anything but GAL to show him otherwise. My words mean nothing to him at this point.
