My best friend only knows of our problems with the marriage (basically H not being happy) and she knows NOTHING of his A, and I still feel her judging me. She is a very black and white person and basically said if her H said the things my H has said, it would be all or nothing. No separation, nothing but divorce. Oh boy what would she say/judge if she knew of his A!?? I love her dearly, but she is not the person I talk to about this. A co-worker of mine (male, about 47 yrs) has been going through this with his W for a year now, and we are instantly connected by our secret (no one knows at work). Now he understands. There is nothing going on between us, just two lost souls, wanting our own marriages back.
Checking the phone....oh I know that so well. Unfortunately, H's is fused to his hip, which is a sign that I wouldn't want to see what's on the phone anyway. SIGH
