WAW1978's adventures in DB'ing -3

[Heimlich]

But I'm sure that any of the guys that read this will have that momentary fleeting thought of oh my god what if this is my wife!!!!!

If you've read so many sitches, then you should understand the very real pain and desire to change evidenced by everyone on these boards. My W has accused me of manipulating her by my changes (christ, she even said that me trying to be a better, calmer dad to my girls wasn't real and a manipulative attempt to get her back). If she would trust my changes, there would be a great chance for us to have a wonderful love affair.

You came in throwing a firebomb, that may be true. And you've said that you've seen alternative versions of the truth. What if your H is sincere? If he weren't, why would he even be here? Are his lies face-saving or evidence of something deeper? Seriously, why would someone waste time and energy here if they didn't really care about you and having a R with you?

BD