Well, I've gotta say, this is a fascinating turn of events.
While I can say that I've been as candid as i can be on this site, the thought has crossed my mind that it would be easy to put one's best foot forward and sugarcoat what's happening in your life here.
While it's disheartening to hear that that may be going on here, I'd prefer to think that 99% of the people here are serious about doing the best they can to save their marriage.
BD
My latest
Me: 36 W: 35 2 D: 9 and 5 T: 16 years M: 12 10/4/06: Bomb 10/5/06: Ended A 4/22/07: ILYBNILWY