GD - I'll try to be as vague about my sitch as possible. Imagine that you are a WAW that has been controlled and manipulated for a very long time. Once you have announced your intentions, your H does a complete 180 that you very seriously doubt is for real. It is only b/c he realizes that he has completely screwed up and could lose absolutely everything. You rock along knowing that he is still lying about little things AND you find out that he is posting half truths at best on this very website! You know that everything he is doing and saying is not his heartfelt response to the situation, but rather an orchestrated attempt not to lose it all. Would you feel even more manipulated than ever before?
Well, I've gotta say, this is a fascinating turn of events.
While I can say that I've been as candid as i can be on this site, the thought has crossed my mind that it would be easy to put one's best foot forward and sugarcoat what's happening in your life here.
While it's disheartening to hear that that may be going on here, I'd prefer to think that 99% of the people here are serious about doing the best they can to save their marriage.
BD
My latest
Me: 36 W: 35 2 D: 9 and 5 T: 16 years M: 12 10/4/06: Bomb 10/5/06: Ended A 4/22/07: ILYBNILWY
I am reading as much as I can on this site, so I guess I can say that maybe I'm not completely done. But knowing that he is still lying to me and the things he has posted here makes me feel even more manipulated.
savingus77 - Are you scared I might be your W? See why I didn't want to post my sitch? All the guys are gonna be scared now. That is of course only if they haven't been truthful.
I have to admit that I have thought 'what if my H is reading my posts on here' although I would highly doubt it - it wouldn't matter that much because I know that I have been 100% honest with everything throughout this entire process. I have also thought that while I am not keeping a journal - I am using this website to do so and if we ever make it back to a good place I thought I would share my posts with him and he might find it interesting to know what I was going through and what my thoughts were at the time.
