Need Help!!!

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She has always wanted his approval from him as well as the rest of her family. I really think she is questioning the relationship.

Had a reall heart to heart with her last night. She made dinner again for the two of us and helped with some other things as the night progressed. When I finally decided that I should go to bed I decided to give her a kiss to show that I really appreciated what she has done. I have not kissed her on a regular basis as part of the detachment of DB'ing. When I kissed her she did not pull away and we progressed to make out for the next 10 minutes.

As we finished though is when things got interesting. I could tell there was something on her mind and when I asked, she opened up. I really did a lot of things that hurt her leading up to this past few months and she again wanted to make it loud and clear that her feelings have not changed. I made it clear that I completely understood where she was coming from. She elaborated on her stance, which really scared me. She questions are M because of my actions and she has begun to think that there might be someone better for her out there. She is having a real tough time believing I will change and that even if I do that they will stick because that has been the case in the past. I told her that I have and will change and that I would prefer it be with her but essentially that was her choice.

I know we have not been on the best of grounds with our relationship but hearing that come from her really scared me. i know I can move on and will if needed but I want her to be a part of my life...