GD - I'll try to be as vague about my sitch as possible. Imagine that you are a WAW that has been controlled and manipulated for a very long time. Once you have announced your intentions, your H does a complete 180 that you very seriously doubt is for real. It is only b/c he realizes that he has completely screwed up and could lose absolutely everything. You rock along knowing that he is still lying about little things AND you find out that he is posting half truths at best on this very website! You know that everything he is doing and saying is not his heartfelt response to the situation, but rather an orchestrated attempt not to lose it all. Would you feel even more manipulated than ever before?
