I haven't talked about Retrouvaille with her, yet! Tried before and it was accepted and then turned down, when this first started, but I think we are farther along now. I'm not to sure of my tactic, of offering the weekend and in exchange if there is no change of heart I'll give her the D on the terms she wants. But she won't talk about the D for almost 2 weeks again, so why bring it up if I don't have to. She wants to talk Saturday, so I guess I hear what she has to say. I can always pull out my proposal if she wants out. If she wants to work on things, I can offer it as a tool we can try.