Nice. Just reinforcing something you know -- don't let her just suck you back in. Make her work for it to show she's serious. Keep up the detaching and being nice and all that.
She going to Retrouvaille with you? I wouldn't pin the whole "D or not to D" decision on the outcome of the weekend. It's a step, not the final destination.
Just my 1 penny's worth today.
BD
My latest
Me: 36 W: 35 2 D: 9 and 5 T: 16 years M: 12 10/4/06: Bomb 10/5/06: Ended A 4/22/07: ILYBNILWY
