I've been at this a long time. (5 years) My MLC/WAS, whatever you want to call him has filed for divorce twice, both times when we got down to the actual signing he had a brekdown of sorts and begged to give him more time. 5 years later, still same results. We live parallel lives, we co-parent our children and do many things together, but it is strictly a plotonic relationship. We've sold all of our marriage assets, although I did buy a house, so legally he still has claim to it when/if we get divorced. He lives with his mom in a tiny room that my kids call a cave, it is dark and dreary......... He's been depressed since 9/11, won't get help and cycles in and out of this roller coaster. Is this MLC? I don't really think so......Is he a WAS, I guess!! He did have a relationship with a woman for 3 years, she was psychotic!! He finally figured that out!!
I'm going to follow your thread to see what others have to say. I often wonder why they don't just finish what they started!!
Just curious? Do you plan to file for D? I could as well, because we have not lived together in 5 years....... As for me, I'm just getting all my ducks in order.
