That's because I don't do it to be mean or to retaliate (most of the time). If I DO do it to be mean or to retaliate, it's either because I've mismanaged my own emotions or my own intent. And in my imperfection, well... it happens, and I show my azz.
If I do it on purpose (which I have), it's usually because I have picked up on something, and I start poking and prodding to verify what it is I **think** I'm reading.
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and most of us need that pointed boot in the ass anyways to help wake us up and get us on the right track.
Hm. I'm going to save that one to show you if I ever piss you off.