What is there to respond to you? If you are as absolutely predictable in your marriage as you are on this board then it is no wonder you get an absolutely predictable R. You don't get a woman with "juice" in her responses to you because you are so stale yourself. Once again Cemar - ANYONE can be LD and ANYONE can be HD. It isn't a permanent condition. It isn't a personality trait. Your W doesn't wear a scarlet LD on her blouse (although it would be great if she had so you wouldn't have married her and that would have your problem solved right there). You have yourself painted into a corner. Give yourself and her a break by doing or thinking something, anything different.
I have become rather fond of your responses Cemar. They point out to me some of the errors in my own thinking. Please don't see me as weilding a 2x4 but rather as attempting to crank your eyes open a little wider.
