One other thing I just thought of from last night.
Asked her if I decided to move out temporarily, if it would give the space she needs and if it would make her feel better about things. Of course she said yes.
Told her that I would consider that if there was some hope that in doing it, she would be willing to work on the R.
Just thinking about some of the recent posts I saw on this topic. Struggling with the decision as to whether this would be detrimental or beneficial.