No he hasn't always been that way, he was always such a thoughtful and good man...I think this is why I have stayed because the man he is now isn't who he used to be, I don't know maybe he feels that over the years he has given up so much of what he wants that now he is going to stand his ground. He also has a shorter fuse on alot of things, I hope that he can get back to the good man he was. I have tried to say for him to go back to c but he wants to wait until after the retro weekend, so I will back off on that one until after. We have sorted out the bike issue, and I am happy about that, I was getting pretty worried because he was set on getting a brand new Harley, however we just can't afford that, and he wants us both to have a bike, so we talked last night and have agreed that new bikes are not a good idea right now, but we can look at getting a couple of used, and once he saw the logic he was happy with that! Also we aren't going to do the course until the spring, which is better all round, I have even encouraged him to start putting alittle money away so he can buy things for the bike, and he thought it was a good idea. So we did have a more mature interaction, also this morning he said that he is really going to make a concious effort not to behave like that anymore, so hopefully he is now seeing this is not how he wants to be! Believe me I know this isn't going to be a short process, but if he is really trying then I can't ask for anything else!
Me - 44 H - 44 M - 19yrs together - 23yrs D16 S8 EA/PA - Bomb Oct20/06 Jan 8/07 Feb 01/07 Jul 15/07 H still @ home Recovered!
