Shoot, Limbo. Went over and checked out your thread in piecing and couldn't get my thoughts together.
Your conversation wasn't the best, but, egads, your H really was acting like a 6 year old who had his lollipop taken away. Has he always been like that?
Good deal on Retrouvaille. Think of it as just a step. It's not going to magically heal your R, but, from what I've read, it will start you on that path if you're both willing to invest in it. It sounds like your H wants to be with you, just doesn't know how. Maybe the communication tools at the R weekend will give both of you a bit of that how.
BD
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Me: 36 W: 35 2 D: 9 and 5 T: 16 years M: 12 10/4/06: Bomb 10/5/06: Ended A 4/22/07: ILYBNILWY