Keep up the good work. Sounds like you are hitting a new stride with detaching.
Oddly enough, as a WAW I wonder when I need to finish the "detaching" and stop hoping that H "gets it". Different kind of detaching I guess. I just feel continously hurt that he isn't catching on and I getting more hurt by this rather than less.
Me: 30 EX-H: 37 DD: 5 Separated 6/07. MC for months, EX-H quit MC. Divorce Final 8/14/08. Trying to move on with new life.