Yes, I am starting to feel a bit better and better each day. I know that in the end GAL and detaching are the best things for me. So far this week H has seen the kids every day. He is being really great about helping me with the day to day stuff, back to school night, soccer etc. It is alot like it was before he left, except he goes home to his own and house and the fact that he is not here with us anymore. I appreciate him for doing that, and really hope that he does not end up detaching from our kids.
My H is still the same seeing our son on a daily basis at the moment He is spending lots of time and money on him I keep thinking OW must be tearing her hair out!! (But then it has been only 3 weeks since he dropped the bomb of OW)
I have in the past had a R with a man who has two children adn I REALLY resented the time he spent with his kids. I was young then (20) and maybe didn't understand but I am prepared for my H to be getting a hard time from OW for the ammount of time he spends with our son.
How old are your children?
My son is 11.
Nutty Chick.
Be The Greener Grass.
Me 40 H 42 Son 11 Married 15 years. Left May 2006 after gambling spree I had EA August 2006 OW Aug 07 after another gambling spree (she will make me happy - stop me gambling!) I filed for divorce 9th April 2008.
