Thanks everyone for you thoughts. I think you all have made valid points.
IMP, the last thing I want to do is to manipulate my H in anyway. My intention was to help us both. Unfortnately, at this point, I think MC is out of the question...so no need to ask.
Breton, that might be the way to go, if my H will take the call (something I didn't really thing about before). It could be that if the C calls my H to check on him, there is a very SLIGHT possibility that my H might start thinking about C again.
Lin-I hope and pray that someday my H and I can be where you and your H are now. I can relate to your story so much. I want so much for my H and I to be able to talk and listen to each other...I just wish I knew when or if it will ever happen.
w8ing- I am so used to being in control...of course one of my H's many complaints. I am so impressed by your ability to see how MLC work when you are still so new to this. Maybe you missed your calling!...maybe you should have been a C???
I might ask the C to call and check on my H. I will just leave it at that. Thanks so much for all of your input. Your thoughts certainly helped clarity things for me.
