Plank removed from eye, too late for WAW? 4

[Heimlich]

You could always paint your tackle box pink

W went to open house for D's school. Girls needed baths, so stayed home and took care of them. Once finished she called and asked me if I wanted her to pick up any beer as she was going to the store (yeah, she FINALLY starts drinking beer a year ago and NOW she wants to leave, sigh). So asked her to get me something dark, you know what I like from there. So that was nice, she didn't have to offer.

Came downstairs to tell me good night. Patted/rubbed my shoulder before going up.

Nothing much, but at least some touch most days.

OT raised the boundary issue the other day and ever since I found the photos of her with OM, something has been eating at me. So asked her tonight if she had been seeing OM before she told me ILYBNILWY. She said no. Then I asked if she had been seeing him over the summer, again, no (not too sure about that). At any rate, told her that if she had seen him over the summer I wouldn't have really blamed her because I hadn't given her a reason to really reinvest in our R. She may still be lying, but I had to know. If she had been seeing him prior to April, I couldn't do this any longer. Since then, I think I can.

Anyway, the break the mood, I leaned forward and said in a serious tone, "Can I ask you a favor then, for both of us?" She kind of looked guarded and said, "sure." I said, ok, whoever finds Chicory Stout (a REALLY GOOD beer) first, buys and equal amount for the other. That got a good laugh.

Anyway, knowing that, I can move forward with keeping the possibility of rekindling this R in mind.

BD