Oh - would anyone recommend acupuncture for the yin/yang balancing? I did it years ago for a female medical issue with much success... wondering if I can help program my energies to be more receiving sexually and more nurturing/lovey-dovey in general.

It may be helpful to share the one thing (not related to me sexlife) that I am recently revisiting (tho its practicality is slightly alluding me) which is to go to medical school. I always wanted to be a doctor (surgeon - any/plastic), but pulled out just after taking mcats (and getting adaquate scores to get in somewhere but not stanford/ucla/duke which were my choices) because I had an accident that forced me to be a patient, and I got scared off by the doctors dissuading me from the bleak hmo-ized future world of medicine (and I knew the most important thing to me was to raise kids eventually). The reason I bring this up is that I love humanity and I love to help people in a scientific and pragmatic way. But as much as I like medicine, I'm pretty sure I wouldn't want to be a nurse or a tech or an administrator because as doctors have been pegged many a time, it's the "person in the power seat" that I aspire to be. Not sure why I'm throwing this out there, but felt compelled... maybe it will help someone shed a bit more light on how I can best move forward with my love life.

thanks again!

Last edited by loonyqt; 08/30/07 02:49 AM.
36 y/o HD in committed monogomous relationship for 15 years (at least on my end, assumed on his as well)
2 children, 6.5 dd & 5 ds