In a mature relationship, desire is an action not a feeling.
This may be true for LD's. but I don't think this always applies to HD people. My DESIRE is activated many times a day, and I do absolutely NOTHING to get there. Just the sight of a beautiful woman will AUTOMATICALLY create desire. It is not a feeling, it is not an action, it is a chemical boost to the body. I have NEVER had to act my way to desire.