So I txt W this am to see if she got my e-mail. Our work e-mail has been spotty, so not sure if it had gone thru. Had asked she get a few things for me and set in garage so i did not have to go inside. 2 reasons, for me, so I don't have urge to look around. Will only upset me if I see signs of OM, which could easily just be that she had F over and nothing else. For her, she was not happy about my snooping (even though it's still my house too).
She had not checked e-mail yet. Calls me 10 min later. Says I should just come by and get stuff. Says she is not sure where everything is. BS, only asked for 4 things, and described place one hat is that she may not have known. I said Ok and went and got it after work. Started to look around, but stopped and went on my merry way.
W calls around 6. Says this may sound stupid, but a F called crying and she was coming over to house. W had C sesh at 7:30 she would have to miss, asked if I wanted to go instead, she woudl pay since will be paying either way for cancelling last minute. I said I just went yesterday and was good. She said somethiung again about having to pay either way. I reiterated I was good. Said goodbye.
Intersting, for once she's thinking of someone other than herself. No idea who upset F is, and did not ask. Not my prob. Found the whole thing strange. I also did not mention that C said I should just come every other week since I am not upset anymore. Looking forward to no contact for next 10 days or so. It's like W is trying to maintain a friendship w/ me that does not exist. Like whole A is done and gone. Whacky!
I'll be signing D papers this weekend to be filed. Will have LF hold off filing until late in week so W is not served until following week. That way we can get through dividin and packing my stuff that Sat beforehand. Hopefully we make good progress since I have no idea how she will react. Want to be amicable and avoid R talk and/or argument. That would slow the process I'm sure. Good Lord I just want my stuff out of there so we can haggle over big stuff and then be done with each other.
I have a feeling she'll be contacting me.
Oh, also she asked about my leg when we spoke this am. Told her it hadn't fallen off anf that I had nurse changing dressing every am and F at work every afternoon. Awwww, I guess she still cares. She doesn't need to. I have plenty of people who truly care and are there for me.
I am soooo ready for my vacation. Work is killer with new promo and me missing a lot of hours with leg stuff. Been working at home at night, and the big guys have noticed. It's nice to have a new focus at work. Have the ladies that will be working for me wondering what is going on, since they don't know yet. As my boss said, it's good to make them squirm for a few days. Take that tidbit to heart for you trying to detach or keep things mysterious with W's. Rain, your W will squirm with your plan. Keep it up!!


Me 32
WAW 30
D Bomb 7/9
Separated 7/15
Reiterated bomb 8/12
PA 8/21
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